What to Learn from Tisha B’Av, Lament, and Consolation

Most Jewish holidays are festive occasions with plenty of food, fellowship, and fun for all. But some dates on the Jewish calendar are marked by more somber observance. In the case of the Day of Atonement, for example, a solemn attitude and fasting reminds people of the call to repent and humble themselves before the Lord. The same is true with the holiday of Tisha B’Av when people engage in fasting and mourning to commemorate tragic events in Jewish history.

Each year on the ninth day (Tisha) of the Hebrew month of Av, Jewish communities remember the destruction of the first and second Temples in Jerusalem, among other tragedies in Jewish history. Themes of lament and consolation are interwoven in Tisha B’Av, offering profound lessons for Jewish people and for humanity as a whole, including believers in Jesus. By understanding the historical context and emotional depth of this day, we can uncover insights about grief, resilience, and hope to strengthen our walk with the Lord.

The Historical and Cultural Significance of Tisha B’Av

For Jewish communities everywhere, Tisha B’Av is a day of collective sorrow and reflection on the catastrophic events Jewish people have endured throughout history. The destruction of the First Temple by the Babylonians in 586 BCE and the Second Temple by the Romans in 70 CE were pivotal disasters resulting in exile and Jewish dispersion from the land of Israel. These events represent not only physical destruction but also spiritual desolation for Jewish people, as the loss of the Temples signified a profound rupture in the relationship between God and His people.

The day extends beyond these two historical events, however, to encapsulate a range of calamities throughout Jewish history, including the expulsion from Spain in 1492 and from England in 1290, and various massacres of Jewish communities in Eastern Europe. While Tisha B’Av has come to represent all the times of devastation, destruction, and despair throughout Jewish history, it also serves as a reminder of Jewish people’s enduring resilience and perseverance. Those who observe Tisha B’Av remember these tragedies with fasting, reading the book of Lamentations (Eicha in Hebrew), and reciting liturgical poems of mourning called kinnot.

Scriptural Precedent for Voicing and Dealing with Lament

Reading Scripture for and leading up to Tisha B’Av plays a crucial role in allowing one to voice lament while finding consolation in the character of God. The book of Lamentations, with its poetic and haunting verses, vividly expresses sorrow and despair. The striking imagery and emotional intensity capture the devastation felt by those who witnessed these events. Yet, nestled at the very center of these intense and languishing laments is the heartbeat of the book: “This I recall to my mind, therefore I havehope. The Lord’s lovingkindnesses indeed never cease, for His compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness” (Lam 3:21–23). Like an anchor, this passage on God’s faithfulness and mercy offers a steadfast hope, teaching how even amid our deepest sorrow, God’s love and mercy endure.

While Tisha B’Av is primarily a day of mourning, it also carries a message of hope and consolation. The period following Tisha B’Av leads into the Seven Weeks of Consolation, culminating in Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year. This transition from grief to renewal reflects the cyclical nature of life and the possibility of recovery and growth after loss. Furthermore, Jewish tradition says the Messiah will be born on Tisha B’Av, symbolizing the ultimate redemption and restoration (y. Berakhot 2:4).¹ This belief reflects the prophetic vision of a future when, as Scripture says, God will wipe away every tear and restore His people to their former glory (Isaiah 25:8; Revelation 21:4).

As we seek consolation from God, we are also called to offer comfort to others. The apostle Paul encourages us to “comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God” (2 Corinthians 1:4). As we experience God’s healing and restoration, we become vessels of His consolation to a hurting world. A vital part of our calling as believers in Jesus is to reflect His compassion and love.

Ramifications of Tisha B’Av for the Jewish Community and Believers in Jesus Today

Tisha B’Av resonates with recent intensified threats to the Jewish community, reminding us of the persistent need for vigilance and solidarity. Antisemitic incidents and violence continue to pose significant threats to Jewish lives, making the themes of lament and resilience all the more relevant. For believers in Jesus, both Jewish and Gentile, Tisha B’Av can offer an additional layer of meaning, which encompasses a yearning for the ultimate redemption through Jesus, the promised Messiah. This perspective emphasizes lament is not just about mourning the past but recognizing the world’s brokenness and yearning for its redemption.

Jesus Himself participated in the tradition of lament by weeping over Jerusalem and expressing deep sorrow for the city’s spiritual blindness and impending destruction (Luke 19:41–44). His tears remind us lament is a necessary part of our spiritual journey, drawing us closer to God and His purposes. While we live in a world marred by suffering, Tisha B’Av teaches us it is not our final destination. The hope of redemption and restoration gives us the strength to endure and the courage to continue working toward God’s purposes. This forward-looking perspective is crucial for maintaining our faith and resilience in challenging times.

Believers in Jesus can learn from the Jewish tradition of using Scripture to mourn and find consolation. It reminds us to engage deeply with their faith, acknowledging pain and suffering while holding onto the promise of God’s enduring love and ultimate redemption.

Conclusion

Tisha B’Av, with its themes of lament and consolation, can extend profound insights into our spiritual journey. It trains us to face and feel our sorrows, seek and offer God’s comfort, and hold fast to the hope of future restoration. As followers of Jesus, we live in the tension between lament and consolation. We acknowledge the pain and suffering in our lives and the world, yet we cling to the hope of redemption. This duality is reflected in Tisha B’Av.

Whether we observe this particular day, we can learn much from mourning past and present tragedies, while anticipating a glorious future restoration promised by God. These themes are deeply rooted in the life and mission of Jesus, who embodies ultimate brokenness and sure hope for redemption. Let us embrace the power of lament and the promise of consolation, which can draw us closer to God and His redemptive plan for the world.

Published on August 12, 2024.

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1. [1] From the Jerusalem Talmud, a rabbinic work. ↩︎